12: Family: Old and New
(All of this subsection 12 titled "Family: Old and new" is reprinted from the book in its entirety.)
All believers in
the name of Christ Jesus must understand the simple fact:
Jesus did not come to send
peace on earth. He came to send a sword of
division. Think not that
I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to
send peace, but
a sword. Matthew 10:34. The pure Word is that divisive
sword.
For the word of
God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged
sword, piercing
even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the
joints and
marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the
heart. Hebrews 4:12. The Word
divides households and extended families too.
For I am come
to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter
against her
mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. And
a man’s foes
shall be they of his own household. Matthew 10:35-36. On one
side of the
division are those that have the Spirit and live as part of the body of
Christ doing
God’s will as a child of His—on the other side are the children of
disobedience/unbelief
of God’s Word/will who are of the world from whence we
came out.
We who are
alive in Christ have left the family of our “old man” for a new
family of
brothers and sisters born of the Spirit in Him as we are. As our old man
has died, so
to has the contact with the family of our old man in many ways.
Still, as we
live in the Spirit as part of His royal family, the family members of
our “old
man” shall attempt to chastise and persecute us for rejecting the lives
and
lifestyles they cling to and continue to defend. Blessed are
they which
are persecuted
for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are ye,
when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say
all manner of
evil against you falsely, for my sake. Matthew 5:10-11. In so
doing, they
seem to forget we left behind and now repudiate the same lifestyles
they prefer
for the life in Christ we now have.
We are well
aware of what we have given up, and know full well the difference
between the
“lives” of our “old man” and our “new man”. Therefore, they need to
accept the
fact we won’t be “going back” to who we were to please anyone. For if
after they have
escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge
of the Lord and
Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and
overcome, the
latter end is worse with them than the beginning. For it had
been better for
them not to have known the way of righteousness, than,
after they have
known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered
unto them. But
it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The
dog is turned
to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her
wallowing in
the mire. 2 Peter 2:20-22.
With reference
to His disciples, Jesus said if anyone does not hate their
fleshly
family that
person cannot be His disciple. And there went great multitudes
with him: and
he turned, and said unto them, If any man come to me, and
hate not his
father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and
sisters, yea,
and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple. Luke 14:25-26.
Is the
“sanctioned” hate of Luke 14:25-25 unloving if the person(s) we “hate” as
per Luke 14:25-26
are self-professing Christians? No.
The hatred
Jesus spoke of is directed to anything and/or anyone that gets in
the way of
His disciples living by the pure Word and doing the
will of God. For
instance,
when Peter unwittingly opposed the death of Jesus according to the
Word as the
will of the Father, Jesus turned to Peter and said, “Get behind me
Satan.” From that time
forth began Jesus to shew unto his disciples, how that
he must go unto
Jerusalem, and suffer many things of the elders and chief
priests and scribes,
and be killed, and be raised again the third day. Then
Peter took him,
and began to rebuke him, saying, Be it far from thee, Lord:
this shall not
be unto thee. But he turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee
behind
me, Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou savourest not the
things
that be of God, but those that be of men. Matthew
16:21-23 (Emphasis
added); see
also, Mark 8:31-33.
The words
Jesus spoke to Peter were clearly not words of man’s love. As the
Word and as
God, Jesus loved Peter and hated the devil’s advocate in Peter. The
brethren
rightly consider Jesus’s rebuke of Peter as the Lord’s chastening out of
this love
for him. For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth
every son whom
he receiveth. Hebrews 12:6; see also Revelation 3:19. But note,
Jesus said
the same thing to Satan himself, and Jesus most assuredly does not
love Satan. And the devil
said unto him, All this power will I give thee, and
the glory of
them: for that is delivered unto me; and to whomsoever I will
I give it. If
thou therefore wilt worship me, all shall be thine. And Jesus
answered and
said unto him, Get thee behind me, Satan: for it is written,
Thou shalt
worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve. Luke
4:6-8
(Emphasis added). The difference is clear. The brethren are penitent and
live in the
Spirit to do the will of God. The devil and his children do not.
As part of
His royal family, we leave the
life of our
old man (person) behind as
having died,
and we live the life
of a child
of God!
As to
“Christians”, ALL Christians are supposed to be disciples first! …And
the disciples
were called Christians first in Antioch. Acts 11:26. As
disciples–
the saved,
we rejoice in the cross. For the preaching of the cross is to them
that perish
foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.
1 Corinthians
1:18. In fact, we who live in Him “take up” our own cross and
follow Him.
Hence, we prove our discipleship by taking up our cross,
personally
and
individually, and following Him at all costs. And whosoever doth not
bear his cross,
and come after me, cannot be my disciple. For which of you,
intending to
build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost,
whether he have
sufficient to finish it? Lest haply, after he hath laid the
foundation, and
is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him,
Saying, This
man began to build, and was not able to finish. Luke 14:27-30.
Otherwise,
we prove we are unworthy of Him and the love of God by the Spirit
He brings. And he that
taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not
worthy of me. Matthew 10:38.
The cross we
take up is “to do thy will, O God” (Hebrews 10:7 and 10:9-
10) as He did.
As he suffered, the brethren know their flesh will suffer too when
they “take
up” their own cross. When we suffer, we do so for the sake of the
pure Word,
and honor Jesus. For unto you it is given in the behalf of Christ,
not only to
believe on him, but also to suffer for his sake; Philippians
1:29.
But note,
our suffering does not compare to the torture He endured for us. For
consider him
that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself,
lest ye be
wearied and faint in your minds. Ye have not yet resisted unto
blood, striving
against sin. Hebrews 12:3-4.
When we
honor Him, we please our Father. We are His children and the
joint-heirs
with Jesus as we live in Him. And if children, then heirs; heirs of
God, and
joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we
may be also
glorified together. Romans 8:17. As He is now, so are we in
this
world–alive
in the Spirit, “dead” to the flesh, and servants of God the Father.
Herein is our
love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of
judgment:
because as he is, so are we in this world. 1 John 4:17.
As part of
Christ and servants of God, we are sent by Him to share the
knowledge of
the Spirit and eternal life just as He was sent by the Father. Then
said Jesus to
them again, Peace be unto you: as my Father hath sent me, even
so send I you. John 20:21. Hence, we
are the ambassadors for Christ. Now then
we are
ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we
pray you in
Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God. 2 Corinthians 5:20.
As the
ambassadors for Jesus the Christ, we act in His stead in both word and
deed. For
example, He laid His life down for us as His friends. Greater love
hath
no man than
this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13.
Living in
Him means we lay our lives down for the brethren. Hereby
perceive
we the
love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay
down our lives for the
brethren. 1 John 3:16 (Emphasis added). When we do, we
know we have
passed from death through the flesh unto life through the Spirit,
because we
love the brethren. We know that we have passed from death unto
life, because
we love the brethren. He that loveth not his brother abideth in
death. 1 John 3:14.
However, the
brethren do not lay their lives down for the non-brethren,
i.e.,
those who
are not of the Spirit. Why not? Jesus already gave His life for all of
mankind. (Romans 5:8). He
fulfilled that task completely, and there is nothing
for us to do
to secure the possibility of salvation for anyone else.
We are supposed to
love our neighbor in the same way we love ourselves. …
Thou shalt love
thy neighbour as thyself. Matthew 22:39. And, man
cannot
love God
unless he loves his brother/brethren (i.e., humankind). If a man say,
I love God, and
hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his
brother whom he
hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
1 John 4:20. The love
we show our neighbor who we know is not a brother in
Christ most
certainly is the love from God in us by the Holy Ghost, but we don’t
“die” for
them.
Of course,
the brethren never seek to justify themselves by asking, “Who is
my
brother?”, but how can we: 1.) love our neighbor, 2.) give our lives for the
brethren
living in Christ, but not give our lives for the non-brethren, 3.) and not
be able to
love God unless we love our brother as in all mankind? How are these
verses
reconciled? Simple, the brethren do not withhold the love of God from
anyone. The
love of God is also the truth from the Spirit of Truth. We make sure
the lost
know Jesus gave His life for them, and we do not give our fleshly
lives for
the
unbelieving. We give our lives for anyone who wants the truth. The brethren
is anyone
who wants the truth about the Spirit, and is sincere about doing the
will of God.
Thus,
obedience of the brethren to the will of God, personally and individually,
is the
primary concern of the brethren. Because each disciple has their own
role in the
body of Christ, the will of God for each disciple should not be the
concern of
others. Peter seeing him saith to Jesus, Lord, and what shall this
man do? Jesus
saith unto him, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that
to thee? follow
thou me. John 21:21-22.